Analysis: 1 Israeli vs. 20 Pro-Palestine Activists

My Youtube feed decided to show me https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=risOOuIDXHY with some clickbait, "1 Israeli vs. 20 Pro-Palestine Activists." Rochman, the Israeli, was well prepared to make his arguments, though I think he was constrained by a silly format which doesn't exactly foster serious discussion, some not so great questions, and a lack of being prepared to answer points made by the "He is great at treating others as special, regardless of beliefs. Pro-Palestine activists" some of whom were respectful, seem to think demonizing the other side while taking zero accountability – or even stating outright – that October 7th was wrong – had some good points as well which needed better scrutiny.

I was incensed enough to comment on this and call out people who defend violence as an answer in the name of Palestinian rights, while Rothman took a, "we're all cousins approach – let's just get along."

Rudy Rochman 1:12 — States the claim and identifies himself.

Evan 1:39 — Lays out a four-part structure: definition, precedent, intent, results.

Definition — genocide is acts committed with intent to destroy a group in whole or in part.

Precedent — Srebrenica: ~8,000 men and boys killed, ruled genocide, done to facilitate ethnic cleansing. Killing to drive out a population can itself be genocide.

Intent — cites Netanyahu before a Knesset committee on destroying houses so there is nothing to return to, and on finding a country to take the refugees.

Policy — the "Where's Daddy" / Lavender AI targeting system: strikes on suspected low-level operatives while at home with family. Argues this defeats the human-shields defense.

Demographic evidence — Reuters reporting on 1,300+ family bloodlines wiped out, up to four generations, as many as 14 members of one family.

Testimony — 65 doctors' NYT guest essay; notes international journalists are barred, so medical volunteers are the primary independent witnesses.

Rochman 4:07 — Three responses:

Moral framing — he opposes any killing of Gazan civilians; sees Palestinians as "my family, as my cousins," shared ancestry and shared land.

Definitional counter — genocide requires intent to eliminate the population; attempts can fail (Armenians, Nazi Germany) but the intent must be total.

Category distinction — what Evan describes is ethnic cleansing, which is separate and which he also opposes; individual politicians who want Palestinians removed don't make it state policy.

Exchange [0:04:46–5:25] — Evan presses: does that mean Srebrenica wasn't genocide? Rochman: if the intent was to eliminate the whole population, yes; if the intent was mass killing to accomplish expulsion, that's ethnic cleansing. Disputes the sourcing of the Netanyahu quote, invites fact-checking, and commits: if the quote holds, he opposes it and would call it ethnic cleansing.

Rochman 5:25 — Proportion argument. 2.2M people in Gaza; ~70,000 deaths maximum, from Hamas-controlled figures he considers unreliable; argues natural deaths (~5,000/yr) are folded into that number.

Evan 6:07 — Rebuts: natural deaths are not included — you'd see excess mortality among the very young and old in the demographic data and you don't; the Gaza Health Ministry has been reliable across prior conflicts.

Rochman 6:30 — Argues the party that seeks to kill civilians is the one supplying his numbers; and that 70,000 out of 2.2 million is "a small amount of people and very clearly not a genocide."

Host 6:45 — Voted out.

Dr. Soboh 7:01 — Opens on the proportion remark. Says he almost believed Rochman wanted peace until he "ridiculed and belittled 70,000 deaths."

Rochman 7:28 — Denies that characterization; restates that one Palestinian death is horrible, but the numbers don't establish genocidal intent.

Dr. Soboh 7:47 — The hasbara/influencer argument. Says Netanyahu and Israeli officials have openly called for winning public opinion through social media and influencers; reads Rochman's soft, compassionate register as an execution of that strategy while he served in the army.

Dr. Soboh 8:20 — Semantic self-defense. "I'm a Palestinian. I'm not an anti-semite. I'm a Semite." Anti-Zionist because anti-apartheid, anti-genocide, anti-ethnic-cleansing. Rejects the "pro-Palestinian" label as given: the room is pro-equality and anti-racism, and would be pro-Jewish under the same facts.

Exchange on condemnation [0:08:53–9:22] — Rochman asks him to condemn attacks on Jews worldwide, including a bus bombing. Dr. Soboh condemns killing any innocent person; Rochman presses on his phrase "justified reason."

Dr. Soboh 9:22 — The credibility test. If you really want peace, join Breaking the Silence.

Rochman 9:34 — The "token" argument. Breaking the Silence mixes truth with lies, is funded by foreign entities, and functions as a token Jewish/ex-soldier voice. Says there are token Palestinians too. Then pivots: does anti-Zionism mean opposing his people's right to live in that land?

Dr. Soboh 10:14 — The historical-welcome argument. Palestinians opened their doors to Jews arriving; cites the Hadid family's account of housing a Jewish family who then claimed the house.

Rochman 10:40 — Says he won't condemn Palestinians collectively, and rejects that 1948 was genocide: it was a war between two peoples in which people on both sides were expelled — which he opposes.

Dr. Soboh 11:11 — Rejects the "they fled voluntarily" narrative as the government's line.

Rochman 11:28 — Some left, many were forcibly displaced; adds that Jewish villages were also depopulated — "why were there no more Jews in the Old City?"

Exchange on Deir Yassin [0:11:36–12:01] — Dr. Soboh raises Deir Yassin and pre-state militias. Rochman acknowledges it and other Palestinian communities, says he supports Palestinian return, but objects to indicting the whole national claim on wartime atrocities by individuals.

Yunes Ahmed Assad a survivor of Dir Yassin in the Jordan daily Al Urdun (April 9, 1953):

THIS IS KIND OF LIKE A ‘REMEMBER THE ALAMO’ OR ‘BOSTON MASSACRE’ CLAIM IN THAT IT IS TAKEN OUT OF CONTEXT AND BLOWN OUT OF PROPORTION. Yunes Ahmed Assad a survivor of Dir Yassin in the Jordan daily Al Urdun (April 9, 1953): "Deir Yassin has ever since been the rallying call for the Arabs and the enemies of Israel and of the Jewish people. Arafat compares it to Auschwitz. It is one of the great hoaxes of the 20th century, comparable to the libel that Jews drank Christian blood…The fight for Deir Yassin was part of the war and a necessary battle for Jewish survival. The Irgun, under Menachem Begin, warned the Arabs and asked them to evacuate their women and children. Hundreds left, but hundreds stayed. A pitched battle ensued, and when the smoke cleared, 120 Arabs were killed, 40 Jews were seriously injured and four Jews were dead…[The 'massacre' claim] has long since been discredited by the Israeli government and every other historical study. But like all libels, it stands off truth and proof."

Dr. Soboh 12:01 — The "judge by conduct, not statements" argument (analogy to Trump on immigration): don't take the professed intent, look at what happened on the ground.

Rochman 12:05 — The warnings argument. Says he personally witnessed Gazans being warned before strikes.

Dr. Soboh [0:12:18–12:33] — Calls it propaganda and then attacks the premise itself: telling someone "I'm bombing your house tomorrow, get out" is not a defense.

Rochman 12:33 — Context: when Hamas fires rockets from a house with a family in it and Israel warns them, that is the situation; asserts eyewitness authority ("you were not there").

Exchange on start dates 13:00 — Dr. Soboh: this didn't start on Oct. 7 — it's 75 years old, 1948. Rochman objects to "you" being used to mean him personally; Dr. Soboh says he's addressing the ideology, not the man.

Rochman 13:23 — Closing note: he sees the man before him as a doctor and a cousin, not as Hamas; the younger generation can build something better.

Host 13:43 — Voted out.

Sean 13:56 — A single sustained personal-and-doctrinal argument:

Personal exposure — the 2006 Lebanon war. A cross-border raid killed eight IDF soldiers and took two, seeking a prisoner exchange.

Disproportion — Israel's response was carpet bombing of the airport, highways, port, civilian infrastructure — including his aunt's home, no Hezbollah connection.

Siege tactics — cousins trapped in a basement, no electricity (power stations bombed), water and fuel cut. "Does this sound familiar?"

NO.

The ambulance — a marked ambulance carrying a grandmother north was struck; the IDF denied it.

The doctrine — that war produced the Dahiya doctrine; cites Eisenkot on applying destructive force and treating a civilian village as a military base. Gaza is "the Dahiya doctrine on steroids."

The distinguishing intent — Lebanon wasn't genocide because there was no attempt to push Lebanese out of Lebanon; in Palestine there is.

Rochman 15:49 — Response:

Context — Lebanon involved the PLO and Hezbollah operating from Lebanese territory, with rockets and terrorism against Israel.

Military logic — the first step against an army that's attacking you is degrading its transport capacity, including airports, to end the war.

Kinship framing again — sorry for his family; Palestinians are close cousins, other Arabs also cousins, common descent from Abraham and Ishmael.

Redirect — the useful conversation is how to stop the conditions that produce these consequences.

Host 16:47 — Voted out.

Aidan 17:00 — Traps the definition. Earlier you said genocide means eliminating a population — do you stand by that? Then: that is not the legal definition. It's intent to destroy in whole or in part.

Aidan 17:25 — The Holocaust analogy. You use the number of Palestinians not killed as proof it isn't genocide — but the Germans didn't kill every Jew, and you agree that was genocide.

Rochman 17:42 — Israel doesn't intend to destroy Palestinians in part either; every Israeli action is aimed at preventing civilian death.

Aidan 17:52 — The adjudication question. How do you determine whether a government intends destruction in whole or in part?

Rochman 17:57 — Warnings as evidence of intent. Strikes are on Hamas sites; phone calls, texts, leaflets, sometimes 72 hours ahead — that shows intent to minimize civilian casualties.

Aidan 18:25 — The bare-minimum rebuttal. Warnings are required by international law; it's a strange standard to treat compliance with the legal floor as proof of benevolence.

Aidan 18:42 — The falsifiability trap. If they didn't warn, you'd say that showed intent to kill civilians, right?

Rochman 18:49 — No — in a live firefight where no warning is possible and civilians die, that isn't genocide either. Asserts combat experience against Aidan's academic/media vantage.

Aidan 19:34 — Points out the consequence: warnings prove no genocide, and no warnings also prove no genocide — the position can't be falsified.

Rochman 19:46 — Turns the fallacy charge around — calls Aidan's framing a fallacy of infallibility: an argument that can't be disproven is illegitimate. Says the demonstrated effort to prevent casualties is affirmative proof of intent. Aidan raises safe zones and refugee camps being bombed after evacuation orders; the exchange collapses into interruption.

Host 20:28 — Voted out. [Ad break — Kickoff sponsor read, 0:20:34–1:21.]

Rochman 21:35 — States the claim.

Mohammad 21:43 — The clean ideological separation. All of this is a distraction from the focal point: opposition to an occupation. Opposing the occupation means opposing the ideology behind it — Zionism — not the people who identify with it. Consistency test: opposes Christian Zionism and would oppose a Muslim Zionist. "It's the ideology, not the person." Adds that in his view most Zionists are Christian Zionists.

Rochman 22:43 — Two moves:

Sincerity — it's sad that genuine compassion is read as tactics; there is no motive behind it.

The spectrum-of-antisemitism argument — some Nazis wanted all Jews dead, some wanted them expelled, some wanted them present with lesser rights. There are multiple ways to be against a people; opposing their right to live in their ancestral home is one of them.

Mohammad 23:36 — Where does the exception come from? Why do you get a right others don't? Says the indigeneity argument is debunked.

Rochman 23:36 — The shared-descent argument. Both peoples descend from the same civilization; Jews are indigenous to it; many Palestinians descend from that population and "opted out" via conversion to Christianity or Islam. Cites genetic literature — Nature, American Journal of Human Genetics, researchers Nebel, Hammer, Behar — for Palestinian descent from that population, up to 80–90% in places like Yatta and Yafa/East Jerusalem. Conclusion: Jews living in the ancestral homeland is decolonization.

Mohammad 24:43 — Dismisses it as debunkable in ten seconds. Voted out.

Grace 25:02 — Two evidentiary blocks:

The blockade and famine — April 2025 total blockade, no food, aid, or shelter; 470 dead of severe malnutrition, mainly women and children, with 10,000 more expected; famine formally declared.

Journalists — 270 journalists killed, more than WWI, WWII, the Civil War, and the post-9/11 wars combined. Frames both as "what happens under a Zionist regime."

Rochman 25:46 — Reframes as what happens in war; denies supporting starvation; says he's focused on changing the conditions rather than cataloguing Palestinian suffering selectively.

Rochman 26:15 — The selectivity counter. Where was this for the Palestinians killed in the Syrian civil war? Only Palestinian suffering that implicates Israel gets attention. Then: aid was blocked — which he opposes — because Hamas was stealing it.

Rochman 26:49 — Concedes a legitimate criticism. Israel should have created a safe zone rather than a distribution system where crowds were repeatedly shot at the same place. Voted out mid-answer.

Mason 27:15 — Criticizing a regime is not criticizing an identity. Then asks whether Rochman supports the "Board of Peace" plan for Gaza.

Rochman 27:36 — Agrees criticizing the Israeli government is neither antisemitic nor anti-Zionist — every Israeli he knows does it; the line is crossed when you oppose Jews' right to live there. Opposes the Board of Peace and the "French Riviera" plan: no imposition by the US, Qatar, Saudi Arabia, or any foreign entity. Wants "one civilization for both" with equality — avoiding "one state" because the current Knesset system is corrupt.

Mason 28:14 — The democracy objection. How can a regime be democratic with equal rights and autonomy if one ethnicity is structurally prioritized?

Rochman 28:14 — The non-negotiables framing. Palestinian non-negotiables: right of return and "freedom from the river to the sea." Jewish non-negotiables: full economic, political and military control of the land, Jerusalem as capital, the Third Temple. Return creates a demographic and cultural problem, and many Palestinians currently wouldn't want to live in Israel.

Mason 28:57 — Calls that an overgeneralization and addresses the camera: what's being advocated is an ethnostate prioritizing one population.

Rochman 29:15 — The Ten Tribes argument. 16–18 million Jews today descend from 2½ tribes; 9½ are missing; ~100 million people outside that number still identify with the Jewish people, and roughly half would make aliyah — potentially 50 million Jews returning alongside Palestinian return, which dissolves the demographic objection. Prerequisites first: cultural change, freedom of speech (which he says doesn't exist in Palestinian societies), education reform.

Exchange on standing [0:29:54–30:22] — Rochman asks whether Mason is Palestinian, "a fan or a player." Mason: identity doesn't confer credibility on an argument, and refuses the game framing — "I can recognize an atrocity when I see it." Rochman presses on Oct. 7 as an atrocity; Mason says any innocent death is condemnable.

Mason 30:24 — The Jewish anti-Zionist argument. Calling anti-Zionism antisemitic spits in the face of Jewish Voice for Peace and similar groups — Jews who recognize their identity and still refuse to endorse an ethnostate.

Rochman 30:24 — The self-hatred/token response. Every people has members who turn against their own; individual Palestinians do it too, siding with oppressors to be accepted.

Mason 31:12 — How are Palestinians oppressing Israelis when Israel controls the region?

Rochman 31:16 — They side with a world hostile to Jews. Mason counters that the US backs Egypt and others too, and that American involvement is designed to sustain conflict and profit US weapons manufacturers — which Rochman says he also opposes. Voted out.

Renuka 31:48 — Opens by conceding ground. Explicitly not a gotcha; credits Rochman for recognizing Palestinian identity and existence, which he says Israeli rhetoric traditionally doesn't. Reads it as strategic but commendable. The criticism: "you fail to recognize the pain that's not in front of your face" — the cousins here, but not the ones there.

Renuka 32:33 — Redefines anti-Zionism. You keep asserting anti-Zionists don't want Jews in Israel. That's not what it means. Anti-Zionism is opposition to Jewish supremacy while they are there.

Renuka 32:58 — The Beinart argument, and the reversal. Invokes Peter Beinart as recovering the Jewish case against this. Then reverses the charge: your framing is more antisemitic, because it makes Jews a monolith — always victim, never capable of violence. Cites the Book of Esther's 75,000 killed as a counterexample.

Rochman 33:42 — Collective vs. individual. Jews as a collective are not capable of atrocity; Jewish individuals of course are. Israel is a state, not "the Jewish collective," and as a state is capable of wrongdoing and has done wrong.

Renuka 34:11 — The internal-critique objection. Your own line — "every Israeli criticizes the government" — is offered to show criticism isn't antisemitism. But you're not describing criticism, you're describing demonization. In Israel a Jew can deny God, but you can't sit in the Knesset as an anti-Zionist. The system can't be questioned from within.

Rochman 34:26 — The Three D's. Demonization, delegitimization, double standards. Applied: delegitimizing the Jewish claim to the land; painting Israel as the world's worst actor stripped of context; caring about Palestinians only when Israel is the perpetrator. Then the definitional core: Zionism comes from Zion/Jerusalem and means the right to return and self-determine in the ancestral homeland — so opposing that is antisemitic, while opposing government policy or the treatment of Palestinians is simply being pro-Palestinian. Adds: the Jewish collective defines Zionism, and citing a handful of dissenting Jews isn't a valid source, any more than citing Palestinians who hate Palestinians.

Renuka 36:03 — Asks Rochman to name one antisemitic thing anyone in the room has said.

Rochman 36:14 — Names three categories: "you're not the real Jews / you're converts / it was the Canaanites" (delegitimization); "you carpet bomb, you kill indiscriminately" (demonization); indifference to other genocides (double standards).

Renuka 36:36 — Closes the loop: you've just labeled everything everyone here has said as antisemitic — which lets you dismiss every argument without answering it. Notes nobody in the room uses a comparable label to void his points. Voted out.

Dr. Soboh 37:00 — The definitional-authority argument. Credits Rochman as a well-trained debater, then: the problem is you claim the right to define Zionism and deny us the right to define anti-Zionism. When we say anti-Zionist we express no hatred of Jews or Jewish communities — we mean opposition to what the Israeli government is doing, which you are defending.

Rochman 38:11 — Agrees this is the productive move — argue about meanings, not terms. Restates his definition as the official and historical one.

Rochman 38:29 — Asks what the other side actually means. When he says "Zionist" he isn't talking about Palestinian suffering; he wants Palestinian return and Palestinian life; he works with Palestinian leaders in Gaza and the West Bank.

Dr. Soboh 38:47 — Doesn't blame Palestinians; blames US foreign aid and the British. Rochman [38:47] agrees this exchange is the important one: if both sides state what they actually mean, the labels can be set aside in favor of a shared future vision.

Dr. Soboh 39:19 — Free speech, first thread. The Israeli government is pushing to criminalize criticism of Israel. Americans are now experiencing what Middle Easterners have for 75 years — people losing jobs and school places for criticizing Israeli government actions.

Dr. Soboh 39:36 — The dictatorship argument. Middle Eastern dictatorships exist to protect Israel — Egypt is the second-largest recipient of US aid, and Camp David is why. Presented as what people in the region believe.

Rochman 40:11 — Counters that there is freedom of speech in Israel for Palestinians and Israelis alike; contrasts with Hamas in Gaza; says he doesn't live in the US and won't defend American speech restrictions. Wants US and European military investment out of the Middle East.

Dr. Soboh 40:40 — Rabin. What happened when he tried? Assassinated. Rochman: because he wanted to divide the land — do you support two states?

Dr. Soboh 40:50 — The third solution. Everyone debates one state vs. two; most Israelis want a third — ethnic cleansing, getting everyone out.

Rochman 41:00 — The fourth solution. Palestinian extremists want to cleanse the Jews. Both extremes exist. Asks directly: do you believe in one civilization for both peoples? (Avoiding "one state" because he wants a new republic, not the current Knesset system.)

Dr. Soboh 41:21 — Yes, if it's equal, fair, and just — but then it can't be a Jewish state.

Rochman 41:35 — The cultural-state analogy. Why can't it be both democratic and Jewish? A Chinese state or Japanese state is Japanese by culture.

Dr. Soboh 41:50 — A Jewish state gives Jews more rights — see how Palestinians under Israeli rule live.

Rochman 41:58 — Palestinian citizens of Israel don't have to serve in the army and have fewer obligations, not fewer rights.

Extended exchange on equal rights [0:42:02–44:31] — Dr. Soboh: they're second- or third-class citizens; either you're oblivious or you're lying;

Rochman: name a specific right that differs. Points out he himself cannot go pray on the Temple Mount while they can. Dr. Soboh shifts to speech — could a Palestinian citizen say "I support Hamas"? Rochman: no, and neither could you say "I support ISIS" in the US; the rule applies regardless of ethnicity; there are Israeli Arabs who openly support Hamas at Tel Aviv and Hebrew University without prosecution. Dr. Soboh presses that people have been jailed for words; Rochman says only where there was plotting or affiliation. Dr. Soboh's analogy: a group in America can be told it has equal rights and not actually have them.

Rochman 44:31 — Rejects the American analogy. The US case is colonizers who took the land and imported enslaved people; that has no bearing on two peoples native to the same land who were set against each other by outsiders.

Exchange on background [0:44:54–45:32] — Dr. Soboh asks where his family is from. Rochman: Morocco and Algeria on his mother's side, Poland and Belgium on his father's — "that is the displacement that we went through." Dr. Soboh distinguishes Jews who lived in Palestine continuously from a Jew who arrived from Poland with no connection. Rochman: displacement doesn't sever origin — the same logic that lets a third-generation Palestinian in Chile or Jordan retain a connection.

Rochman 45:44 — Asks not to be treated as foreign. Requests Ashkenazi Jews not be classed as foreigners; notes every citizen of the new state, Jewish or not, was included.

Ethiopian Jews 46:02 — Dr. Soboh asks how he sees them. Rochman: brothers — and says his life's project is bringing back the remaining tribes of Israel in Africa.

Dr. Soboh 46:12 — The representation objection. If we agree on everything, why debate? You came to present the Israeli government's view. Rochman: no — he represents his own positions, which many Jews and Israelis share.

Rochman 46:36 — The syllogism. If you're not against Jewish self-determination, you're not an anti-Zionist. Dr. Soboh: "No, I am an anti-Zionist" — which is why definitions matter.

Dr. Soboh 46:42 — Full definition, stated. Anti-Zionist here means anti-apartheid, anti-genocide, anti-ethnic-cleansing, against brutal treatment of Palestinians, anti-colonization, against land confiscation, against racism and inequality in Palestine. Not racist, not antisemitic, nothing to do with the Jewish faith — about actions and atrocities.

Rochman 47:19 — Says he opposes all of those too, so by that list Rochman is an anti-Zionist — which shows the word is doing no work. Then: to be against something you must know what it is, and Zionism predates anti-Zionism.

Dr. Soboh 47:46 — The flag argument. It is the way you and Israelis raise the flag of Zionism that makes us anti-Zionist. Rochman restates the minimal definition and asks why Jews and Israelis are always the ones blamed.

Rochman 48:08 — Zero-sum objection. You see this as good guys and bad guys — what about the Israeli communities that were destroyed? Time called.

Rochman 48:22 — States the claim.

Chadha 48:40 — Opens by asking him to explain the basis of the belief.

Rochman 48:46 — A claim about Jews is never a claim against another people. "If you dig in the land, you find our history." Continuous presence; free return.

Chadha 49:03 — Asks whether he identifies as a Zionist.

Rochman 49:03 — Names the branches — right, left, secular, religious, Christian (which he opposes) — and gives the common core: the right to self-determine in Judea/Israel. Yes, he believes Jews should come home.

Chadha 49:33 — Why does indigeneity matter here? This is a pro-Palestine vs. pro-Israel debate — why is indigeneity load-bearing?

Renuka 51:57 — The primary-source argument. Pre-state Hebrew correspondence — Ben-Gurion, others — used words meaning to settle, to colonize. If they didn't consider themselves colonizers, why did they use that language?

Rochman 52:43 — The semantic-drift defense. At the time the term meant development of the land. Cites Herzl describing the native inhabitants and the intention to live alongside them. Words carry period meaning; today "colonization" is universally condemned.

Renuka 53:23 — Dissociation doesn't erase the plan. Now that the West has decided colonialism is bad, you disclaim the language — but disclaiming it doesn't erase the preconditions or the plan it described.

Rochman 53:42 — The plan was restoring sovereignty to the indigenous population; "development of the land" did not mean extraction back to a motherland, which is what colonization means now.

Renuka 54:04 — Development-of-land is colonial language, used consistently. People already lived there.

Rochman 54:14 — The divide-and-conquer thesis. Jews had continuous presence; his argument isn't against Palestinians, Arabs, or Christians. The British divided and conquered everywhere — India/Pakistan, Afghanistan, Nigeria (Igbo, Hausa-Fulani, Yoruba) — and here convinced Israelis that Arabs and Muslims were their enemy while convincing Palestinians that Jews were an extension of European colonialism, "which you're falling into." The 1948 war and those after are the consequence.

Renuka 55:20 — The Lehi–Nazi contact. Shamir, later prime minister, whose group corresponded with the Nazis — reaching out to an enemy to take over Palestine.

Rochman 55:47 — The hostage-negotiation frame. The Nazis controlled Europe and its Jews; Zionists negotiated to get Jews out before they were killed. You negotiate with whoever holds the hostages. Says Renuka is conflating the Nazis in Europe with the British in Palestine. Voted out.

Mohammad 56:46 — A long opening with seven distinct arguments:

Dependency — calling Zionism decolonial is absurd when it required the sponsorship of the British Empire and today cannot exist without US backing.

Herzl's petitions — to the Ottomans and European powers, until Balfour.

Balfour's text — seven of its articles concern Jewish rights; Palestinians appear only as "the non-Jewish population," unnamed.

The 1936 Arab revolt — crushed by the British while the Yishuv was allowed to develop a proto-state with arms, a paramilitary, and a parliament; Palestinians attempting the same were suppressed.

Coexistence vs. sovereignty — nobody denies Jewish history there or says Jews can't live there.

The difference is between coming to live and coexist, and coming to draw borders maintained by guns — Jabotinsky's "iron wall."

The indigeneity tells — bombing the orange trees of Jaffa, burning olive trees in the West Bank.

The cultural tells — destroyed homes rebuilt in European architecture; Israeli participation in Eurovision; identification with Europe.

Rochman 58:56 — Answers in order:

Tone — notes Mohammad laughed at being greeted respectfully; argues a new generation recognizes each other's suffering.

Why it's decolonial — the first peoples were the Hebrews/Judeans/Israelites; Rome colonized and renamed the land Palestine, a foreign term from the Philistines, an Aegean people from Greece — not the ancestors of today's Palestinians, most of whom descend from Jews converted to Christianity and Islam, mixed with later Arab arrivals, forming the post-colonial Palestinian identity. He accepts Palestinians as native with rights to the land.

Why Balfour was written — to give the Arab world the impression that Zionism was an extension of European colonialism. "By the way that you're speaking, they still did their job."

Haj Amin al-Husseini — appointed Grand Mufti by the British, not chosen by Palestinians, and met with Hitler — part of the same project of making each people see the other as its destroyer.

Why Herzl petitioned the Ottomans and British — they controlled the land; you negotiate with whoever holds it.

On the cultural tells — you're speaking English, and I wouldn't say that means you're not from the land. Jews who spent time in Europe returned with European architectural knowledge; that's where they had lived.

Mohammad 1:02:02 — The DNA-testing claim. Why aren't DNA tests allowed in Israel?

Rochman 1:02:08 — They are — names MyHeritage, an Israeli company; what's restricted are firms that sell user data. Calls the claim an antisemitic talking point from Reddit and invites fact-checking. Adds that Ashkenazi Jews, who aren't even the majority in Israel, test as descended from the land.

Mohammad 1:02:42 — The bulldozer. His parents and grandparents were born in Palestine; two days before taping, his grandfather's cousin's house — 24 people living in it — was destroyed by American-funded bulldozers. "What future when you destroy my grandpa's cousin's house? Where are they supposed to go now?"

Mohammad 1:03:05 — The end-goal argument. Home demolition is a colonial tactic; the site gets rebuilt by someone else. "That has been the end goal of Zionism — as few Palestinians as possible with as many Jews as possible."

Rochman 1:03:23 — That may be some Zionists' goal, not the movement's; Zionism is a spectrum. Says he doesn't know the particulars and is sorry it happened.

The keffiyeh exchange 1:03:45 — Mohammad objects to Rochman wearing what he calls appropriated dress. Rochman: it's a sudra, worn by his ancestors for thousands of years, as by Druze, Bedouin and other Middle Easterners under different names; "if you were wearing a keffiyeh, I would see you as a cousin."

Mohammad 1:04:18 — The conduct test again. If you saw me as a cousin you wouldn't be building walls or demolishing my grandfather's house — not you, the people you defend. "There is no justification for occupation."

Rochman 1:04:35 — Illegally built structures are demolished for Jews too; the rule is applied to both.

Mohammad 1:04:49 — The authority question. Who determines who owns what land? Answers his own question: the Palestinian Authority and the Israeli government, both byproducts of a UN created by white European colonizers. Adds that these are homes standing for generations, not new illegal builds, and that "legal" is itself the disputed term. Voted out.

Opens 1:05:36 — with a barbed compliment about the sudra/keffiyeh, then asks him to explain the indigeneity claim.

Selina 1:05:48 — Builds a scriptural-plus-genetic argument by consent:

Do you believe in the Torah? Yes.

The Torah has the Israelites going to the land of Canaan — agreed?

The Torah has them commanded to take it by the sword.

Abraham came from outside Canaan; Canaan is modern-day Palestine.

The test result — "If I, a Palestinian, take a DNA test, which I have, my DNA comes back almost entirely Canaanite. If an Ashkenazi Jew takes that same test, their DNA comes back entirely European." So explain the indigeneity.

Rochman 1:06:30 — Answers on the same ground:

Genealogy from Noah — Shem fathers the Semitic peoples; Ham's descendant Canaan is born in Africa; the Canaanites descend from Africans who moved into the region.

The reversal — the Canaanites took the land of Shem's descendants, the Hebrews, which is why Abraham is born in displacement. "He's actually the first Zionist" — the first Jew returning to his ancestral homeland without yet controlling it.

The sequence — twelve tribes, Egypt, slavery, return to the land the Canaanites had taken.

The three conditions offered to the Canaanites: live under the rule of law (the seven Noahide laws), leave, or fight. Some left, some accepted, some went to war.

On the genetics — disputes that there is a distinct "Canaanite DNA"; argues remains found in the region are assumed Canaanite because people read the Torah as saying the land was Canaanite first, when before that it was Hebrew.

Selina 1:08:55 — Objects to being told she descends from idolaters and "horrible people." Rochman denies saying it and says her DNA would likely come back Jewish, the same way European Jews' does.

Selina 1:09:11 — The convert analogy — the strongest form of her argument. "I agree with you that my ancestors are Jewish."

But a territorial claim by descent-through-religion is like a white European converting to Islam and claiming a land because Muslims lived there for generations. Being of a religion doesn't make your descendants genetically from that land. Her ancestors were Jewish and from there — but a Jew in Europe isn't thereby indigenous.

Rochman 1:10:03 — Peoplehood, not faith. Notes she has moved from "Canaanite" to "descended from Jews," which he calls more accurate. Being a Jew means descent from an ancient civilization — you remain a Jew even without belief. Conversion is a years-long adoption of an identity, culture, and value system, not a swap of religion. European Jews aren't European converts; they are an indigenous people who went to Europe.

Selina 1:10:40 — "When does it end?" Starts a comparison to Tibetans and Native Americans. Time called.

Rochman 1:10:53 — States the final claim.

Mason 1:10:59 — The incongruity charge. Credits his calm demeanor ("your patience can do well for an Instagram career"), then: how can you tell a man whose family home was bulldozed that you see him as a cousin? Explain the incongruity of claiming to protect the land's people while carrying water for a genocidal regime.

Rochman 1:10:59 — Symmetry: Palestinians have killed people of his, and he doesn't hold all Palestinians responsible. He can acknowledge a horrible act and still see them as family. The obstacle is the assumption that anyone pro-Israel must be anti-Palestinian.

Mason 1:12:12 — The argument that gives the episode its cold open:

Separates man from regime — I won't attack your personal morals, but the regime you're justifying doesn't believe what you believe.

The domestic parallel — "I've experienced the tactics of the IDF not because I've stepped foot in Israel or Gaza or the West Bank, but because ICE agents right now are currently being trained by the IDF." Different uniforms, same ideology.

The shared mechanism — permanently designate a population a security threat, militarize enforcement, then demand detention or removal as a display of force.

The epistemic point — when people who defend Israel tell me not to believe my own eyes while I watch footage of children being killed, I can't accept the claim of good intentions.

Rochman 1:13:16 — Concedes plenty of disagreements with the government, then disputes "indiscriminately" as a factual matter.

Rochman 1:13:42 — The standing argument. As an Israeli who served, was recalled to reserves, and was in Gaza, Lebanon, and Syria "doing my best to prevent us from fighting" — what you saw is Instagram reels and YouTube videos. Civilians did die horribly, and that creates a greater responsibility to correct it. But Israel doesn't bomb indiscriminately: leaflets, phone calls, everything it can.

Mason 1:14:18 — The human-shield rebuttal. How long before they bomb a hospital or a school?

"72 hours to leave your roots and communities before we bomb."

If someone robbing a bank holds children as shields, police shooting through the children isn't justified — so the Hamas-presence argument doesn't license the strike. Rejects the exchange as propaganda. Voted out.

Summer 1:15:21 — Opens with five arguments:

The reductio — if historical connection and indigenous roots override the sovereignty of existing nations, then all modern borders are meaningless; if they don't, then Zionism is simply a political movement.

Herzl was an atheist — evidence the movement is political, not religious.

Intent quotes — Ben-Gurion on expelling the Arabs; Weizmann referring to Arabs as rocks to be moved.

The etymology counter — "Palestine" doesn't come from the Romans: Herodotus, the father of history, used it eight times; it derives from a Greek word for the coast.

Uganda and Argentina — the Zionist Congress considered other territories. If Palestine wasn't the only option, it's a colonial project, not a return.

Rochman 1:16:28 — Answers each:

On Herodotus — a Greek writer; the Philistines were a pre-Greek population from Crete, so a Greek empire would naturally style that coast as its own. The name attaches to the land under Rome, long after, and was applied to insult the memory of the Jews. Adds that plishtim in Hebrew means invaders — while saying he doesn't consider Summer one.

On indigeneity — the Hebrews/Judeans/Israelites were the indigenous population; the land passed through foreign empires and no country was ever built on it until Israel.

On consistency — he supports indigenous liberation generally: Tibetans, Yazidis, Kurds, Aboriginal Australians. Different peoples want different forms — some want a state, some don't.

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Rochman 1:19:52 — The offers weren't ours. The proposals were Uganda, Argentina, Birobidzhan, Angola, Madagascar — what the world offered Jews, not what Jews wanted. Jews pray toward Jerusalem; the glass broken at weddings marks the destruction of Jerusalem and the promise to rebuild it. Herzl floated Uganda as an emergency waystation given the killing in Europe, and the Congress rejected it.

Summer 1:20:56 — The Canaanite-language argument. Traces Zion/Shalem to Canaanite, naming Shalim as the Canaanite god of dusk, a name 6,000 years old.

Summer 1:21:07 — Hebrew was dead. Ben-Yehuda took many words from Arabic to revive it, which undercuts continuous existence. Rochman [1:21:19]: only the spoken vernacular lapsed — Ladino, Judeo-Arabic and other creoles were spoken while Torah, Talmud and all religious texts remained in Hebrew.

Summer 1:21:38 — The Judaization argument (his strongest thread):

Per the JNF's own record, the landscape was Judaized — non-indigenous trees planted across Palestine.

Committees were appointed to go through Arabic village names and issue Hebrew equivalents.

Personal names followed — Netanyahu from Mileikowsky.

The dispositive question — why would a people with a legitimate claim need to hire a committee to rename the towns?

Rochman 1:21:55 — Surnames are only ~200 years old; before that it was name, father, tribe — common across Middle Eastern cultures. On place names: this was reviving original names, not inventing them — Nablus is from Neapolis, Greek/Latin for "new city," which Rome imposed over the indigenous Shechem. So restoring Hebrew names is decolonization. Turns it: are you saying the Arabs are the colonizers?

Summer 1:23:16 — Objects to being told where he comes from; declines to litigate ancestry and redirects to the committees.

Summer 1:23:34 — The Nakba argument. Names Tantura and other towns; ~750,000 forcibly displaced; cities built on top of them with Hebrew equivalents of the Arabic names. "That is textbook colonization." Adds the "a land with no people for a people with no land" marketing line — the land was full of people, and Palestinian identity long predates 1948.

Rochman 1:24:29 — The wartime-symmetry argument. Both Jewish and Palestinian villages were destroyed in 1948 — that's what happens in war. Argues the destroyed Palestinian villages were ones that sided with the invading Arab armies. Concedes most villagers were innocent civilians and that far too many were displaced, and says the real conversation is how to bring them back — but objects that only one side's suffering is being counted.

Rochman 1:25:09 — The etymology argument. "Arabs are from Arabia. Jews are from Judea." Arabic language and names poured into the land; they aren't of it.

Summer 1:25:29 — Pushes the timeline back before 1948 — people lived there and were forcibly displaced by an incoming foreign entity. Rochman [1:25:29] cites the 1920s–30s confrontations and the 1929 massacre incited by al-Husseini.

Rochman 1:25:48 — The key concession, stated plainly. "If historical connection and indigeneity alone trumps whatever people are already there, then—" he cuts himself off: it doesn't trump other people, it only defeats the charge that Jews are colonizers and foreigners.

Summer 1:25:48 — The Elhaik citation. A Johns Hopkins Israeli geneticist who found the majority of Jews in Israel lack a Middle Eastern connection — and invites fact-checking.

Rochman 1:26:35 — Counter-cites Nature, the American Journal of Human Genetics, and researchers Nebel, Hammer, and Behar for ~60% of Palestinian genetics showing descent from Jews.

Summer 1:27:17 — Hebron. Palestinians are being caged in by settlers on illegal land. Then: the occupation is illegal — it was supposed to be temporary and has been made permanent, with settlers imposing on top of it.

Rochman 1:27:25 — Not illegal, but must end. "It's not illegal because it hasn't ended, but it needs to end." Agrees he doesn't want the IDF governing people who can't vote for it. But then: "Jewish villages are not settlements." Settlements are built by settlers; settlers are foreigners; Jews are from Judea, so they aren't foreign.

Summer 1:27:38 — Cites Daniella Weiss, who calls herself a settler, and the US government's own designation.

Rochman 1:27:44 — Collective, not individual, indigeneity. Each indigenous people controls its own membership; the Jewish mechanism is a years-long adoption of identity, history, culture, values and tradition. Indigeneity attaches to collectives, not individuals. Time called.

Rochman 1:28:58 — Chooses the doctor. Reason [1:29:14]: "I don't think you see me as an enemy" — a genuine person connected to the land who cares about its people, and the right partner for a conversation about moving forward.

Dr. Soboh's claim 1:29:37 — "With the current situation, we don't see a genuine desire among Israelis to achieve peace."

Rochman 1:29:44 — Concedes substantially: the Israeli government is doing nothing to change the status quo and benefits from it politically and economically. Names Ben-Gvir and Smotrich talking about ethnic cleansing as "horrible and not what our culture has to be." Adds his own line: "the biggest win of Hamas is not how many Israelis they killed — it's how many Israelis they turned into being just like them."

Dr. Soboh 1:30:14 — The chicken-and-egg rebuttal, plus the power asymmetry.

You can trace causation back and forth forever; Hamas only formed in the late 1980s, so it can't be the origin of Israeli attitudes.

Israeli government actions — discrimination, apartheid — are what generate the conflict.

The asymmetry — "You have the power. You have the military. You have the money. You have the support of the whole Western world." You can do something different.

The rock — our children are killed, our homes destroyed; if all I have is a rock to throw, understand where that comes from.

Rochman 1:30:59 — Four responses:

He never claimed Israeli hatred originates with Hamas — it goes back to 1948 and to 1929; he traces the source to the British division of the peoples.

The apartheid definition. Apartheid is one state with different rights for different peoples. Palestinian citizens of Israel have equal rights; the West Bank and Gaza are separate jurisdictions. He opposes that division and wants the land united — but different jurisdictions with reciprocal exclusions is bad without being apartheid.

Accepts the power point. "With that power comes the responsibility" — every Jew, Israeli, and Zionist should hear it; Israel has the power to correct the problems of its Palestinian cousins.

Says AIPAC-driven speech restriction is an American problem, not an Israeli one, though he grants AIPAC is an extension; he opposes American involvement in the Middle East.

Dr. Soboh 1:32:17 — Area A. You served — do people in Area A really have freedom? [1:32:35] They can't drive a few miles; young people have no hope of marriage or work. What do you expect from a hopeless 20-year-old? And what are you doing about the settlers?

Rochman 1:32:49 — Says he understands where extremism comes from on both sides, and that there are people on both sides who don't hate each other.

Dr. Soboh 1:33:06 — The language argument. You refuse to say "Palestine"; you say "Judea and Samaria." Words are powerful — when Palestinians hear that, what registers is we're next, they're coming to remove us. Notes "West Bank" is itself a British term.

Rochman 1:33:12 — Denies rejecting the word; says Judea and Samaria names that specific territory, not the whole land. [1:33:54] The mirror: when Jews hear "Palestine" they hear an attempt to erase them. Both sides have to accept each other's naming of themselves.

Dr. Soboh 1:33:54 — Actions over words. Your actions speak louder — you accepted service in the army. Soldiers who refuse are the brave ones.

Rochman 1:34:21 — "I served in the army proudly. You don't have a weak Jew in front of you." Condemns specific actions and policies as an individual, but argues that without an IDF, surrounded by states that have attacked them, "we would not exist."

Dr. Soboh 1:34:48 — Who started it. You're the one who started. Rochman invokes the chicken-and-egg truce Soboh himself proposed. Soboh: if a foreign country invaded California, you'd expect Texas to respond — the Israeli forces that invaded Palestine were invaders.

Rochman 1:35:07 — They were the indigenous people returning.

Dr. Soboh 1:35:10 — The conditional welcome. "When they came peacefully, we opened our doors for them." The doors closed when weapons arrived and killing began.

Rochman 1:35:28 — The asymmetry of attribution. I identify bad actors on the Israeli side and on the Palestinian side, and refuse to attach either to a whole people. You identify the bad actors on my side and call it all Israelis.

Dr. Soboh 1:35:44 — Says it's the majority — points to crowds at the Gaza border and "death to Arabs." Then: is Israel a democratic state? If yes, how can a minority control government action?

Rochman 1:35:59 — The coalition-math answer. A parliamentary system needing 60 of 120 seats, where no party holds 60 — so parties with two or five seats become kingmakers and can bring the government down. He calls that the reality of the system and has plenty of criticism of Netanyahu. Pivots: change won't come from politicians.

Dr. Soboh 1:36:38 — Then it must come from the majority of Israelis accepting Palestinians as equals.

Rochman 1:36:43 — Agrees, with a reciprocal condition: accept my right to be a human being here and don't demonize my people.

Dr. Soboh 1:36:43 — The dentist argument. He practiced dentistry outside Bethlehem; his patients were Jews, Muslims, and Christians, and all any of them cared about was how much the extraction would hurt. Conclusion: "We have no problem living with each other — but not with a gun on our head." Not while homes are taken, work is barred, and there's humiliation at every checkpoint.

Rochman 1:37:02 — "Remember who you're talking to." He opposes the checkpoints and the walls dividing the land. Says his camp is a large silent population that needs to build a social revolution and stop demonizing.

Dr. Soboh 1:37:38 — Add American free speech to your activism. Your government imposes restrictions on Americans' speech and you are losing Americans over it. How many professors lost jobs for saying they're anti-genocide?

Rochman 1:37:47 — Supports free speech everywhere, with incitement to violence as the only limit. Says a lot of professors — he attended Columbia — support genocide of Jews and defended Oct. 7.

Dr. Soboh 1:38:17 — "There's no genocide against Jews. That's victim mentality. Nobody's after you guys."

Rochman 1:38:24 — The hate-crime statistics. Jews are 13% of New York City's population and over 60% of hate crimes target them; cites sitting down with the chief of police.

Dr. Soboh 1:38:39 — The reporting-rate rebuttal. Not denying antisemitism exists — but the community reports hate crimes better than anyone else, which is what police departments tell other communities, so the statistics reflect reporting as much as incidence.

Rochman 1:38:53 — The all-quarters argument. The far right blames Jews for the left, the far left says they're the right, Black supremacists and white supremacists both make them enemy number one. That's not victim mentality — it's the pattern.

Rochman 1:39:07 — The theological explanation. The extremes are always fixated on Jews because the Jewish people have an unfulfilled function — "to be the world's immune system." Antisemitism is a reaction to Jews failing that purpose.

Dr. Soboh 1:39:28 — Calls it, with respect, a wild dream. Rochman: worldwide unity is a wild dream? Jews believe in Mashiach, a reality of peace on earth.

Dr. Soboh 1:39:33 — "People blame everything on antisemitism right now."

Rochman 1:39:44 — Distinguishes: a lot of antisemitism exists, but not everything is it and not everyone is antisemitic — "I don't consider you an antisemite, because we had a conversation" and established that they define Zionism differently. Criticizing government action or expecting civilized conduct isn't antisemitism; demonizing, delegitimizing, and double standards are.

Dr. Soboh 1:40:23 — The double-standard reversal. Why is it acceptable to take $3 billion a year from America but not acceptable for Americans to criticize what it buys?

Rochman 1:40:34 — That's not a double standard — it's an intentional investment through which the US controls Israel. Restates what a real double standard looks like: caring about Sudan and Nigeria and Israel/Palestine alike, or caring when Hamas kills Palestinians. "I don't see any protests" for those.

Dr. Soboh 1:41:16 — The media argument. Anyone in media who criticizes Israel loses their job. Rochman [1:41:21]: the opposite — media coverage runs against Israel.

Host 1:41:27 — Redirects: names the points of agreement he heard — frustration with AIPAC, with Netanyahu, shared desires for change in Israel — and asks each what change they want to see where they align.

Rochman 1:41:49 — The narrative-change answer. The productive path is changing how each collective sees the other as human: Israelis coming to see Palestinian identity as legitimate and connected to the land and Palestinian suffering as real; Palestinians coming to see that Jews are also connected to that land and that attacks on them are also to be condemned.

Dr. Soboh 1:42:21 — The sequencing rebuttal — his strongest closing move. "You cannot put the carriage before the horse." You can't ask people with no human rights, no ability to feed their children or protect their families, to rise to a high level of civilized social understanding. Order of operations: first freedom, self-determination, and physical security — the sense that no one will take their food or bomb their homes — then the cultural conversation. Illustrates with a friend near Ramallah whose cattle were taken months earlier. "What do you expect us to do? Just sit down being sitting ducks?"

Rochman 1:43:28 — Israelis aren't coming after all Palestinians; there are bad actors as in all populations, and the generalization is the problem.

Dr. Soboh 1:43:28 — He lived it as a child and is looking from the other side.

Rochman 1:43:39 — The conditional-sequence counter. Doesn't accept that nothing can be done or that everyone is an extremist — but agrees Israel, having the power, has the greater responsibility. His sequence: remove Hamas, grant freedom of speech, invest in education, infrastructure and job opportunities, and as the population stops reacting to the government, step controls back.

Dr. Soboh 1:44:06 — "History shows us otherwise." Whenever Israelis have had full power over Palestinian lives, they've made those lives miserable.

Rochman 1:44:07 — Palestinians living in Israel are the freest Palestinians anywhere in the world. [1:44:20] Adds that Israelis strategically resist one state because they'd be a demographic minority.

Rochman 1:44:41 — Closing: the Twelve Tribes resolution. The Jewish people are twelve tribes, as Native Americans are many nations. Today's 16 million are 2½ tribes; 9½ have yet to return. If they return and Palestinians return, the demographic threat Israelis fear dissolves, full equal rights with right of return become possible, and both peoples can move forward. Adds a framing rule for the debate itself: don't source Israelis who are afraid to tell you the truth, and don't source Palestinians who are tokens or "fans" using the conflict for popularity.

Dr. Soboh 1:44:41 — Closing reciprocation. Palestinians have no problem with a peaceful solution guaranteeing dignity, the ability to live, and a safe environment to raise children. Palestinians don't desire to kill Jews or Israelis; what they're doing is defending themselves. "Once the Israelis stop attacking, dehumanizing, bombing Palestinian villages and homes, Palestinians will not have a problem with them."

Rochman 1:46:08 — "I agree. Most are like that. And inshallah, we'll get to that reality."

Host 1:46:16 — Thanks both; announces a follow-up episode with the two of them; asks commenters to acknowledge everyone's humanity.

Host / reflection 1:46:44 — Observes the first half was heated — finger-pointing, name-calling, talking over each other — while the second half shifted toward solutions.

Dr. Soboh 1:46:54 — Mixed feelings. Rochman is either extremely well trained to present a kinder image of an Israeli soldier to win over the American public, or he's genuinely having a change of heart — "I'm hoping this is what it is."

Rochman 1:46:54 — Closing statement. Both peoples descend from Abraham and Ishmael and from the same ancestors more recently; they are eternally linked to the land. Criticize what's wrong, but never in a way that demonizes the whole of the other side, and start listening for each other's non-negotiables.

Dr. Soboh 1:47:30 — Israelis must come to understand they are not superior to Palestinians, have no more rights, and are not above the law or human rights law.

Renuka 1:47:46 — "If you care about Jewish and Israeli safety, you also have to care about Palestinian safety. They're connected."

Rochman 1:48:01 — Happy with the outcome; hopes the willingness to engage inspires others.